No More Narchole

Narcissism: One of the few conditions where the patient is left alone and everyone is treated.

Leave my daughter out of it

“Lies don’t end a relationship; the truth does.” ~ Shannon L. Addler

If you take a look at many of the support groups out there for Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) abuse, you will quickly find a victim relating a story of how quickly their ex has found another person (read replacement,) and how much they seem to be in love.

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Checking in

I just wanted to check in. I have been very busy with work, another court date coming soon, and trying to get my daughter in therapy. I’m hoping to be able to get back to writing soon. In the meantime, I wanted to share a quote I came upon and that reminds me of of Prov 4:23. Continue reading “Checking in”


How to Identify Passive-Aggressive Behavior—MakeItUltra

By Dr. Perry, PhD “Let’s meet at noon at the gym – oh wait, you probably don’t know where that is.” ~ Anonymous We all have that friend, co-worker or family member who has a special way of saying seemingly harmless words that makes us feel like we have been slapped across the face with […]

via How to Identify Passive-Aggressive Behavior — MakeItUltra™

If you are dealing with someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD,) I’m sure you have experienced that Dr. Perry talks about in his latest post. I know I did.


I said that I was not going to reblog posts from my other blog, but in this particular case, I feel I have to. Being with a narc for so long has numbed me to some of the things that make humans kind and good people. Feelings of gratitude are slowly restoring my hopes and trust that there in fact good people out there.

Little Maria Blue-Eyed Angel

After having dealt with someone like my husband for almost a decade,  it is easy to forget that there are people out there who are actually considerate, caring, and thoughtful. The last couple of weeks have restored my faith and instilled that knowledge in my heart and soul, something any survivor or Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) eventually needs to realize and accept.

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Ten pennies make a dime in a dozen

“Money, money, money / Always sunny / In the rich man’s world” ~ (‘Money, Money, Money,’ by ABBA, 1976)

Individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) use every resource at hand to control their partners. Finances is probably one of the most powerful ones. I was very fortunate to keep my financial independence through my marriage. Others are less fortunate. I feel for them.

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