No More Narchole

Narcissism: One of the few conditions where the patient is left alone and everyone is treated.


NPD Traits

Any man who says I am the King

… is no true king.

~ Tywin Lannister to King Joffrey Baratheon (Game of Thrones).

I don’t watch Game of Thrones, neither I have read the books. However, I have read enough and watched many YouTube videos, making it possible for me to be familiar enough with many characters and general storylines. I have come to the conclusion that several characters could be considered narcissists, sadistic, or even sociopaths, young king Joffrey being one of those.

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Not in sickness, only in health

My daughter has been sick all week, which is the reason why I’ve been quiet. I had to skip work and take care of her. My daughter being sick reminded me of how my husband acted with me when I was confined to bed due to a back injury.

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You need to be more spontaneous and adventurous

I’m a little amazed at how things are slowly coming back to me, things that I had completely forgotten about and buried them, not wanting to remember. I think it was a way of protecting myself from more pain and from reliving some unhappy moments.

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I Ignored The Signs That He Was A Narcissist

Saying that I ignored the signs is actually not quite fair. Ignoring the signs implies that you have previous knowledge of them and the consequences you’ll face and risks you’ll take by not abiding by them. For example, running through a red light at an intersection. You could get caught by a traffic camera, if any, pulled over by a police officer, get in a car accident, or in the worst case even die. But if you come from another country where there are no traffic lights at all, you may not understand what they are or their puspose.

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You made me do it

I’m amazed, for a lack of a better word, at how much a narcissist will twist and turn reality in an effort to preserve their false image. I don’t think they ever consider or think about the real consequences of what they do or say. I’m not sure they realize that eventually the truth comes out and the pack of lies and finger-pointing will just damage that beloved image even worse.

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Grey Rock and Your Children

First time I heard about the grey rock method I thought that was a good tool that I needed to master. Unfortunately, I guess I’m a little bit of a hot-head due to my Italian gens. Therefore, sometimes I go from grey rock to red molten lava. It is actually hard for me to go and stay grey rock sometimes. Narcissists can really put you through the test.

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Dying a little, piece by piece

Where to begin? I can attest to the fact that my body suffered every single one of the things in the image above. The first step was not to share. I was feeling so out of it, that I was losing my mind, that something was wrong with me that I couldn’t figure out how to make my marriage work.

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Even at the expense of their own children

A narcissist will do everything and anything in order to preserve the False Self, even at the expense of the people who are supposed to be important to them and loved by them. If you know anything about NPD, then you already know that they are incapable of loving. Therefore, that first statement I made about the people they loved is not quite right.

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Narcissistic Abuse: An Unspoken Reality

Find below a 17-minute documentary on Narcissistic Personality Disorder, by Richard Grannon from Spartan Life Coach. In Richard’s words:

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