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Narcissism: One of the few conditions where the patient is left alone and everyone is treated.



A Look Inside the Mind of a Narcissist

I would like to share an article by Dr. Perry that can help understand how the mind of a narcissist works. I hope you will find it as helpful and informative as I did.


How to Overcome the “Discard Stage” of the Narcissistic Abuse Cycle — MakeItUltra™

By Dr. Perry, PhD “Here is a new car, a new iPhone. We buy. We discard. We buy again. In recent years, we’ve been doing it faster.” ~Arlie Russell Hochschild So here you are, in the middle of the aftermath and wreckage. You have been left behind by a cold-hearted narcissist who once intoxicated you with […]

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The Narcissist’s Marriage to the False Self

By Melanie Tonia Evans

He wasn’t happy until he had me all to himself

I can relate to so many things in this article, such as thinking that I was losing my memory, the isolation, losing my friends, letting go of myself, not knowing myself anymore, the loneliness, how he would say that he couldn’t sleep or work because he couldn’t stop thinking about me and that would make me feel guilty, and more. Three different stories from three different survivors and I can see myself in all three stories to a more or lesser degree. We all seem to share similar experiences. If you doubt it, please, read. You are not going crazy and you’re not alone.

The ability to procreate does not guarantee rights automatically

I found an article that reflects exactly how I’m feeling these days. I am copying some points that express how I have been feeling all along my divorce case.

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How to Identify Passive-Aggressive Behavior—MakeItUltra

By Dr. Perry, PhD “Let’s meet at noon at the gym – oh wait, you probably don’t know where that is.” ~ Anonymous We all have that friend, co-worker or family member who has a special way of saying seemingly harmless words that makes us feel like we have been slapped across the face with […]

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If you are dealing with someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD,) I’m sure you have experienced that Dr. Perry talks about in his latest post. I know I did.

7 Spiritual Ideas That Enable Abuse and Shame the Victim

Another validating article from Shahida Arabi. I’m sure many of us NPD survivors and victims can relate to this. Society judges us and even blames us for what happened to us. We didn’t ask for it, we didn’t seek it, we didn’t and don’t deserve it.

We All Have Scars

I wanted to share BeautyBeyondBones entry for today. If you’re not familiar with this blog, then let this be your introduction. In this particular article entitled ‘Strangers on a plane‘ she shares her thoughts after noticing the passenger next to her had scars from self-inflicted injuries.

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5 Powerful Reality Checks for Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse

Another excellent article by Shahida Arabi. I hope you find it validating and informative, same way I did. Here’s the direct link:

Signs of Collective Narcissism

Here’s an interesting article about narcissistic groups:

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